STUDENTS SHARE RELATIONSHIP, DATING ADVICE
Ok you want to start on your journey that is a relationship so the big question is where do you start? You can’t leave on your journey without packing right?
It all begins with getting the girl first off. Yet this is where most guys make the mistake. Problem is you go to fast for the kill. In other words you go ask a girl too soon. Girls don’t work that way. They like to get to know you as friends before we can even decide if we have an interest in you. Get to truly know the girl. This can tell you their personality or type, and see if she the kind of person you would want to date in the first place. Be patient , and in time this can cause the relationship to be less aquward. This can also make a friendship before you can build up to an actual relationship. This wont guarantee that if you start off as friends that you will get a yes. Yet you have established something a good friendship, so if all else fails you are not left empty handed. Also who says they wont say yes later on in life?This does give you a good chance, compared to when you ask randomly. This will take trial, and error , but eventually you will be successful.
Alright so you are now ready to go forth on your destination. You have prepared. It is time for your first stop, the first date. Girls think if you can’t handle the first date you can’t handle a relationship. There are three ingrediance that make up a great date. They are, a well thought out place to go , you, and keeping it all about her. First off, you want to make it a comfortable place to be at. A place that won’t be secluded so there is no time for anything weird to happen between you. A good place to start off is go see a movie, if your athletic maybe go shoot some hoops, there are many possibilities. Yet make sure your date approves of the place , and activity before you go any further. Secondly, you need to take care of yourself dress up, be clean, most importantly smell good. Being cleaned up, and looking sharp shows that you take pride in yourself, and appearance, and it won’t have your girl running for the hills. Lastly, make it all about her. This may sound a little selfish, but if your the shy type then this will come in handy. What girl ever got tired of talking about herself? If you keep asking questions you learn more about her,and it shows that you care,and interested.
Now that you have completed your first stop, it’s time to keep going, but how do you keep traveling with your girl? You need to know the main problem to avoid . The destructive heartbreaker to avoid would be bad communication. Talking face to face is very important.
“You shouldn’t risk your relationship over fights, big arguments, and getting mad over stupid things,” Abby Ramos, sophomore, said.
The whole base of a relationship is talking things out. It is something that can be improved,and worked out in time. Don’t bring up your evil ex’s. This is not Scott Pilgrim your boyfriend will not fight them for you. If you mention them it may cause conflict. Yet there is one thing that can go from good to bad, and vice versa.
“Trust, and communication is key to a healthy relationship,” Joseph Aleavez, junior, said.
If you can’t trust then you can’t grow as a couple. You want to be able to have that feeling of security that your other person is being faithful to you. Yet you take the relationship day by day, and find new ways to keep your feelings alive for each other. In this you will continue your journey whether you decide to go home soon or keep trailing on.
